Warning: If the following chapter triggers anybody, you are welcome to skip it, I won’t be offended. This chapter is sort of written based on my own Father’s Funeral.
The day of the funeral, Alex, Lisa & Max all woke early and took turns showering & dressing. They decided to book a Hire Car to drive them to & from the Cemetery.
I will explain, Mac had made Alex her Funeral Insurance Beneficiary and wrote a document explaining her wishes. Mac had left instructions for every attendee to wear bright colours and be happy too.
The service was scheduled to be conducted in 1 of the chapels.
The Hire Car arrived just before 8.40am, once Alex, Lisa & Max had exited the vehicle, the driver moved the car to the car park.
Alex saw her parents and went to say hello to them, her daughter, Madison, was there too, and she hugged, kissed her. Madison could see her mum was upset and asked what was wrong.
Alex took her aside to let her know about her Aunty Mac and they were there today to say goodbye to her. Madison is only 3 & not fully aware of the situation, but hugged her mum tightly.
Alex & her parents walked back to the chapel. As they arrived, Alex saw Ashley who introduced her to Taylor who immediately remarked, “So you are the (Censored) Mark was(Censored)?”
This upset Alex and Madison too. Lisa turned around and immediately banned Taylor from the Funeral.
Taylor refused to move, but Lisa was adamant and stepped into Taylor’s personal space and continually moved forward, forcing Taylor to walk backwards towards the gravel of the car park.
Taylor soon got the idea, turned and almost ran away from Lisa.
Someone had called the Security Office, yes, there is Security at some Cemeteries. Lisa saw the vehicle arriving and pointed at Taylor. The officer nodded and headed towards Taylor. He then escorted her from the premises.
Lisa headed back to make sure Alex and Madison were ok, they were.
The mourners had started arriving and were able to be sit inside.
Mac’s Arrival song was DQ. N.B. I will not reveal the real title as I do not have permission to use the full title, however, many of you may know what the acronym means.
N.B. Who can work out what DQ means? Hint, a famous band from the 70’s sang it.
Alex, Madison, Lisa & Max all sat at the front. Alex’s parents sat behind them.
Ashley sat with Alex’s parents, instead of her work colleagues.
At 9am, the celebrant stood up and started the service.
As Alex was Mac’s partner, the celebrant asked Alex to stand with her. Alex did so, reluctantly.
Alex had prepared the service along with the celebrant, Lisa & Max, however, no one really knew Mac from when she transitioned until she met Alex.
Alex talked about her time with Mac and how she felt with her, she did, however, educate the attendees about Trans people.
During the service, Alex started feeling weak, and emotional, which is understandable, so her mum brought Madison up to her. This helped her so much.
Alex asked if anyone from Mac’s life wanted to come up and talk about her. Ashley decided to stand up and talk. She advised, “I used to work with Mac when she still a male, and even though she was quiet at work, was still a pleasure to talk to. We had many chats, but she always looked down, like she was ashamed of something. I tried to get her to open up, but she refused. She never came to any social events, unless they were compulsory. I was shocked when she resigned, because she was a great worker. Honestly, had I known what she was going through, I would have been there for her. Alex, you have lost a great woman, but I know Mac is watching over you. Thank You everyone.”
Everyone in the chapel was in tears. Alex hugged Ashley tightly, then Ashley went to sit again. Alex thanked Ashley.
The celebrant then informed everyone, “As per Mac’s instructions, everyone is to stand up and dance to this song: BTW.” Again I have not revealed the full title.
Everyone stood up and started dancing as requested. Alex decided to lighten the mood by laughing, which caused everyone else to start laughing too. This allowed everyone to relax more. Once the song finished, everyone sat back down.
Alex then recited the following:
“Today we all want to say Thank You to our Amazingly, Super, Gorgeous Friend Mackenzie Jordan Thomason for being the best friend and lover any of us can imagine and although we only had her for a short time, she will never be forgotten, and will always be missed. You are now back together with your 1st love, Lou. Rest In peace beautiful lady.”
This started the waterworks for some attendees.
Alex advised everyone of the after service get together at the cafe near the entrance, with everyone welcome to attend.
The Celebrant then asked everyone to stand again to say their final goodbyes to Mac.
Mac’s coffin had been open the entire time. Of Course Alex, Lisa, Max and Madison went 1st. Madison broke down when she saw her Aunty.
Once everyone had said their goodbyes, the Funeral Director closed the coffin.
The Celebrant asked everyone to remain standing whilst the coffin glides behind the rainbow curtains.
This song playing was Mac’s parents Wedding Song: EY.
Many attendees were unable to watch the coffin glide and left the chapel.
Alex was 1 of them, but she stood there watching and thinking about her time with Mac, but knew Mac would always be in her heart and watching over, and sometimes guiding her.
Once the coffin had slid out of sight, Alex went to join the others.
Alex told the Hire Car driver he was invited for some food and non-alcoholic beverages.
Madison joined her and her parents, along with Lisa & Max in the car for the short drive to the cafe. Most of the attendees had arrived & were waiting.
Once A, her parents, M, L & M were out of the car, they walked inside to advise the cafe manager, who then proceeded to make the hot drinks and have the food placed on the tables.
Alex had hired the cafe, therefore others visiting the cemetery were unable to enjoy any dine in food/beverages.
Once everyone had some food and drinks, Alex walked around to thank everyone for attending & answered questions, which were many. 1 question which Alex despised was, “I thought Transgender freaks transitioned because they like men, not women, so how come Mac and you hooked up, sure you don’t have a p???s”
Alex’s response to each was, “Get out of here, you free loader, I hope Karma gets you and if not, then Mac, now scat.”
Finally, after almost 4 hours, the cafe had emptied out. Alex paid the bill and grabbed some left over food, along with coffees for the driver, herself, Lisa & Max. Ashley had stayed behind to help out, but she had an ulterior motive, wonder what? More Soon about Ashley.
The drive home was more jovial than this morning, Alex seemed ok. Lisa knew she was no where near her full happy self & knew it will take many months for her to fully get over her grief.
N.B. It took me over 2 years to get over my father’s death, & honestly, would not wish what I went through on anyone, even my 2nd worst enemy (JTM). I will never forget the final week my father was in hospital, (Please read Life-Support part), However, the decisions I had to make were not easy & very stressful. I still have nightmares about the week he was in hospital.
To anyone who has or will go through this time, You have my Sympathies, ALWAYS.
This completes chapter 11.
Chapter 12: Moving On Sort Of, will be released next Monday.
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