I was watching this episode recently. BlueHeelers episode 48.Talks about HIV. A character caught it from a cheating ex. This is another reason why I demand written, signed, legal Relationship agreements. A Non-Cheating clause.No physical touching for 1st 3 months, both MUST undertake a Full STD blood test every 3 months. 2 straight tests mustContinue reading “CHEATERS/HIV”

What is Asexuality?

Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to others, or low or absent interest in or desire for sexual activity.[1][2][3] It may be considered a sexual orientation or the lack thereof.[4][5] It may also be categorized more widely to include a broad spectrum of asexual sub-identities.[6] Asexuality is distinct from abstention from sexual activity and from celibacy,[7][8] which are behavioral and generally motivated by factors such as an individual’s personal, social, orContinue reading “What is Asexuality?”

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I fully support having everything in writing, in case things go sour. Also, it sets out clearly what is expected of each party. Many people will refuse to sign them, as they feel they are, or will not, be trusted. Those who refuse to agree, can’t be trusted. Most businesses demand Employees sign a writtenContinue reading “πŸ’žπŸ¦˜πŸ¨πŸ’Written, Signed Agreements. πŸ’πŸŒˆπŸ¨πŸ¦˜πŸ’πŸŒˆπŸ¦˜πŸ’ž”


Β© Mel’s Customised Candles Melbourne, Australia, 2021 If anyone feels suicidal please reach out, as there is lots of help out there, I know, until early 2020, I was suicidal, Daily. Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesn’t mean to say that eitherContinue reading “πŸ¦„πŸ˜ŽπŸ•πŸŒπŸ–πŸšŠπŸ˜“πŸ₯°πŸ¦πŸŒˆπŸšŠπŸš‘πŸ₯πŸš”RESPECT.”

Saturday Safety

G’day, hope our week has been enjoyable & productive. I care about all of you, hence the purpose of this post. My advice to all is: Anytime you are going to meet someone new, ALWAYS meet in public, with support people close by, & CCTV in use. I would also encourage written, signed agreements settingContinue reading “Saturday Safety”


This article is to be honest about some things about me: β€œMELISSA ALISON WILMA JENSEN.” First up, I knew at age 4 that I was β€œDifferent,” but because it was 1970, was too scared to tell anyone. Honestly, I thought I was a β€œFreak, Weirdo, Pervert.” I’d heard these terms from my father. It wasContinue reading “HONESTY & TRUST.”


This blog is dedicated to everyone who helped me recently. Monday, May 17th, 2021, I alighted from a bus at Hoppers Crossing terminus. I started feeling sick, and decided to head to the station restrooms, unfortunately, they were closed. I went to sit down and try to hope night air would help. The local WerribeeContinue reading “Gratitude.”