Is a 2 way street, & if you want to be respected, you should show respect to others. This includes using the correct pronouns, gender, name of the person/s you are talking with. If in doubt: ASK QUESTIONS Growing up, we were taught to respect our elders, which I did, however, most of them neverContinue reading “RESPECT”


As a former male, I feel I can speak freely about them. In my life, I have seen many males who feel they are far superior to others, especially females. Everyone is equal and has feelings, therefore we all should be treated as such. This blog may upset many people, however, what I say isContinue reading “MALES”


I’m not a big fan of most Public Holidays, as most are just an excuse for people to get intoxicated & become abusive. P/H’s only cost the community, financially, time, damage, etc. The only P/H I fully support is: April 25th, ANZAC DAY. The reason why I don’t support most, is because most people willContinue reading “PUBLIC HOLIDAYS (P/H)”


Β© Mel’s Customised Candles Melbourne, Australia, 2021 If anyone feels suicidal please reach out, as there is lots of help out there, I know, until early 2020, I was suicidal, Daily. Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesn’t mean to say that eitherContinue reading “πŸ¦„πŸ˜ŽπŸ•πŸŒπŸ–πŸšŠπŸ˜“πŸ₯°πŸ¦πŸŒˆπŸšŠπŸš‘πŸ₯πŸš”RESPECT.”

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Until the end of June 2022, $1 AUD, per share, will be donated to an LGBTIQA+ charity. Each share costs $5 AUD. Not only will you be helping establish MCC, but be helping others. Please check out the entire website. Also, Please Remember: Treat Everyone With Respect, Equally, Fairness. All Lives Matter.

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From Down Under Wishing Everyone a Super Fantabulous Day. Please Stay Safe & Remember Treat those working, With: Politeness: Respect: Dignity: Courtesy. They have given up their family time to help YOU


I’m sick to death of people refusing to abide by my Boundaries. I will say: 99% are males because most see women or others as a challenge. Well, not with me, if I say I’m not interested, PLEASE ACCEPT & ABIDE By My Wishes. My policy now: Refuse to respect me, Instant Blocking. Males needContinue reading “🀬🀬🀬🀬🀬🀬🀬 BOUNDARIES.”

Privacy & Boundaries

I always respect people’s P & B, as I would expect them to respect mine. However, there are people out there, who feel its THEIR RIGHT To pass on private information to those who ask. Here in Australia, its an offence to pass on information, without written, signed approval. In 2015, I was friends????? withContinue reading “Privacy & Boundaries”

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Β© Mel’s Customised Candles Melbourne, Australia, 2021 Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesn’t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, that’s what makes us all Humans. Back Story to what I think happened: Thursday November 25th, 2021, I finally wasContinue reading “πŸ₯πŸš‘πŸ₯πŸš‘πŸ₯πŸš‘πŸ₯πŸš‘πŸ₯πŸš‘πŸ₯πŸš‘πŸ₯πŸš‘RECENT MEDICAL EMERGENCY.”