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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesn’t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, that’s what makes us all Humans.
Over the course of my existence, I have been accused of various things, whether I’m seen as an easy target, or I have a face where people think I lie, I don’t know.
FYI: I’m an honest, open, transparent person.
What annoys me is the amount of people who can sweet talk their way into almost anything, and/or lie about others.
Sweet Talkers usually find someone who is a weakling and then use their weaknesses to get under their skin.
Most will sound Sympathetic to lure their victim into spilling their guts.
Many Sweet Talkers will have a blank look on their face, like they are not sure about something, but in all honesty, they know more than they let on.
Here is an example:
Growing Up my stupid blister would torment me into snapping, then when I did, she played the innocent victim. I was always punished by my father, because he believed this toxic sweet talking liar.
There are many I could write a book about them, which I might do.
My point is, even if someone tells you something, or seems to be unusually nice to you, may mean that person is up to something.
Because of others hurting me in the past, I now conduct research and will provide proof to back up any claims.
Same with when people lie about me, I will provide, Written, Legal Proof to show what theperson/s has/have said is untrue.
Honestly, I rarely accept anything someone says verbally, until they put what has been said in writing, but a legal document.
Yes, I have Trust Issues, because of many negative things from my past, which is why I always request written, legal documents, and provide same, when demanded.
In my Honest Opinion:
I know, I will cop lots of negative backlash for this blog, but it is my personal view from existing for so many years.
I make no apologies for it.