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For those who don’t know, in early 2015, I became friends with another TransGurl, who I publicly call “Chris.”
At the time, she resided near Newcastle, NSW, Australia.
This person suddenly blocked me after 9 weeks.
How we first knew each other, I posted about seeking a Gender Surgeon in Melbourne, Australia.
The day she blocked me, I was scheduled to see my surgeon and pay the deposit for my surgery.
At the time our association started, she was 15, I was 49. However, I felt she would be a good source of information about Hormone Therapy on a minor. I had asked professionals, but each refused to provide answers.
We never spoke, nor met.
I thought she got tired of how moody I had become. I found out my Hormone Pellet had run out.
I stupidly, wrote a long letter and sent it to her school.
As expected, I never heard back.
Several months later, I was planning on moving to the United Kingdom to live with a friend, who had offered me employment and accommodation.
She had also mentioned about her paying for my gender surgery too. She was a Lesbian.
During my research, “Chris’s” mothers business suddenly popped up. I was puzzled by this.
N.B. I’m a big believer in the Universe talking, or in my case Screaming, at us.
It took me several days to realise about the business.
Again, I set about writing a letter, this time, about the information I knew regarding the surgery.
2 days after sending the letter, I received a phone call from someone claiming to be a Police Officer.
This was a Private Number and the name given was way to quick for me to remember. I tried asking for it several times, but the person changed the subject.
I knew from the way they were talking; it was not a genuine call.
In 2016, I had been in the city early, and then caught the tram back home.
This tram travelled past a very famous market in Melbourne.
At Collins street, many free loaders boarded, this included several females, mothers and daughters.
They chatted away, but my ears were suddenly picked up as a girl mentioned her school.
I excused myself and asked if it was the one I thought. They confirmed it, but then asked me why.
I explained about knowing Chris.
I was then informed about certain things regarding her.
N.B. The information contained below, has not been verified, therefore I’m only repeating what I was told.
A girl then told me: “That is a boy, like you, and is a slut, who will ???? anybody, is known to be a Drug User, Abuser and Dealer, Thief and Liar. That person has been known to take money for ??? too. That person has tried to cause trouble among students and teachers, many times. You are better off staying away from that freak and pervert.”
I was unable to ask any further questions or clarification as the tram reached their stop and they all alighted.
Honestly, at the time, I felt it was all lies, possibly caused by jealousy.
However, in late 2018, I was informed of very vicious lies being spread online by Chris about me.
These lies caused many “Friends?????????” to block me without asking any questions.
This also caused much higher anxiety too.
I also went into severe damage control.
I deleted all my Social Media Accounts and withdrew my novels from sale too, deactivating those accounts.
Thankfully, I was able to set up alerts for each, just in case.
You might think, I was hurt by this, initially, I was. However, once I calmed down and started thinking, also after a long phone discussion with a very close friend, I decided to restart everything.
There was another author with same name as my legal name, therefore, Chris did me a huge, big favour.
I want this on the official record, Yet Again:
“I did not have any physical interest in Chris, nor any other minor, despite what others will say.”
In late 2016, I applied for and passed My Working With Children Check and was issued a Card.
I also obtain an annual Police Check too.
For additional Safety and Security, I also write a Statutory Declaration, which is a Legally Binding Document and if proven to be found lying, can and expect to be charged with lying or whatever the legal term in.