β˜•πŸ˜ŽπŸ˜πŸ°πŸ€©πŸ₯°πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘§β€πŸ‘¦πŸ‘­πŸ‘¬πŸ‘«πŸ’πŸ’‘πŸ’žπŸ’–πŸ’πŸ’˜πŸ’ŸπŸ’€πŸ‘ πŸ₯Ώβ›‘Did You Know? Overprotective Parents, Suck.

The following is my own personal opinion.

I’ve found that many parents will not accept that their offspring have grown up.

Once someone reaches 16, they should be allowed to start making their own decisions, whether good or bad, but that’s how we learn.

I’ve also found that many parents will lie, to manipulate their offspring, sometimes to guilt them too.

Please don’t get me wrong: Its  nice, but sometimes, being overprotective, can smother or restrict an offspring, and they will rebel.

I’ve seen it happen.

Now, I’ve never been lucky enough to become a parent, that choice was taken away when I was 16.

But, as an outsider, looking in, I have seen too many offspring become shy, withdrawn and frightened to do anything against their parents wishes.

I was the same way growing up.
My father controlled me right up until he died. I was 46.

My father stopped me from being happy.
Parents think they are acting in their offsprings best interests,

You know what,

No, they are selfish and acting in

THEIR PERCIEVED best interests, because they don’t trust their offspring making the correct decisions.

Too many Parents are Control Freaks, Snobbish and should listen to their offspring.

And accept them for who they truly are, not some sort of “Mini Me” version.

I know many of you will get angry and upset with me, because of this post, but I don’t care, because what is written above, is from my personal observations over the years.

I failed my parents, but worst of all, Failed the only person who counts in MY existence

ME.

Finally: Please Let Them Beeeeeeeeeeee

Published by Mel's Customised Candles

I'm a Transfemale, whose life has not been great, lied to about various things. I've also been lied about, which is very unfair. Born & Breed in Sydney, New South Wales, Australia. Knew at 4, in 1970, that I was a gurl, but unable to do anything about it. Used & abused by others, including being molested from 6-14 by a relative, viciously assaulted, and left to die at 16, I was left infertile, & little interest in anything remotely physical. Wanted to be a Journalist, but because of assault, unable to continue my schooling. Because of molestation and assault, I have major trust issues. To keep the peace & make my father happy, did what he wanted, except join Defence Forces, Guns Scare ME. I have written & Self-Published 10 eBooks, Link below. I moved to Melbourne Australia February 2015, which has been good, thankfully I'm now settled in a great house with awesome housemates. My 2021 goal is to raise enough funds to finally undergo Gender Reassignment Surgery & Establish MCC. I plan to employ Humans & Train them in Transferrable Skills. I also plan to employ humans suffering from illness & disease. MCC will observe COVID safe practices long after they have been discontinued by others. All Team Members will be required to wear PPE when in Production area.

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