Some of you will get upset, but what I’m going to say, is from personal experience.
In 1979, I was lied too, which stopped me from being happy.
I know my father had my best interests in mind, but
No, I was 14, & should have been able to decide.
I’ve also seen other parents make decisions for their offspring.
You know what, That’s Controlling & Manipulation.
Once a person reaches puberty, they should have a say in their lives.
I’ve also been the victim of “Adults” lies, which have caused major issues.
What I’m saying:
Parents, please listen to your offspring, especially when its about their lives.
& accept them too, without judging or assuming.